To love at all is to be vulnerable.

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket — safe, dark, motionless, airless — it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside of Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell.

-C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves-


It’s risky to low down the guard and let someone get close to yourself because living fearlessly for this moment might hurt you badly. But you know, I read somewhere that

It’s exciting when you find parts of yourself in someone else.

and it’s completely true 🙂

To Live is to Dance. Smile. Giggle. Marvel. Trust. Hope. Love. Wish. Believe.

2 thoughts on “To love at all is to be vulnerable.

    1. Dễ thương cô Tám hen! Chỉ là trích dẫn một đoạn từ cuốn The four loves của C. S. Lewis viết về tình yêu, con cũng chưa đọc cuốn này, nhưng có lần đi lang thang trang zenpencils thì đọc được nên lưu lại làm của riêng 🙂

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